The Mission of Kinky Salon is to provide a safe space for people of all persuasions to explore their sexuality without fear of judgment. The space we have created is designed to be an oasis, where people can feel completely at ease. It is a rare alternative to sex clubs, which can often be intimidating or impersonal. We support creativity, personal growth and deepening of community connection as essential counterparts to sensual and sexual exploration.
Polly and Scott
Volunteer coordinators: Dawn Costales and Lily Tsay
Webmaster and newsletters: Ken Capelli
Social Networking updates: Polly
The Kinky Salon Charter was created by the community and states our intention and our standards. We created it so that it would be super easy for newbies to understand how to behave at our events. Follow these simple do’s and don’ts and you’ll fit right in:
Be creative about how you dress
Contribute when and where you can
State your boundaries
Play safely and consensually
Have sensible safe sex practices
Respect our space and each other
Clean up after yourself
Linger unaccompanied in play spaces
Cruise aggressively (even if they are really cute)
Get too intoxicated
Take photographs
Gossip about what goes on here
Be creative about how you dress
It’s not about having the most fabulous, over the top costume. Just express yourself in whatever form is right for you. If that means dressing down, that’s ok too (but please NEVER wears jeans, khaki or sportswear to Kinky Salon)
Contribute when and where you can
The Kinky Salon community is created through the efforts of everyone involved. If you want to volunteer at an event it’s easy- just sign up on the website. If you want to perform or have a creative offering, just email and let us know. We would love to hear from you.
State your boundaries
If someone makes you uncomfortable, for ANY reason, then you should let them know. That includes touching without asking, saying something that offends you, or even just looking at you in a way you don’t like. Be nice, be graceful, but be firm.
Play safely and consensually
Be clear about what your safe sex practices are, and never stick your finger up someone’s butt without asking first.
Respect our space and each other
Being respectful towards each other and our environment means that we can build an atmosphere of trust. So all you fuckers need to R.E.S.P.E.C.T- dig?
Clean up after yourself
Like, really people.
Linger unaccompanied in play spaces
Please, please, please, don’t hang out on your own watching people! It makes them feel uncomfortable and it makes you look like a Wanky McJerkoff!!
Cruise aggressively (even if they are really cute)
Learn to know the difference between ‘playing hard to get’ and ‘get the fuck outta my face’. If you are given a hint, then take it. There is nothing more unattractive than desperation.
Get too intoxicated
Having a couple of drinks is fine, we are all grown ups here. But if you get shit-faced we will notice and we will kick you out.
Take photographs
We usually have a professional photographer here to capture your fabulous outfit, so keep your cameras AND your cellphones stashed for the duration.
Gossip about what goes on here
NEVER mention names or specific activities on any public blogs or message boards. What happens at Kinky Salon stays at Kinky Salon.
Last updated July 22, 2024