is Mission Control's house party and it's where you'll find the core of our community. It's a low key play party, with a more laid back vibe than our other events. If you want to really get to know us this is where you'll meet the volunteers that make Mission Control happen. 

The evening begins with Pink Drinks, a social corner where you can meet like minded people for pre party mingling. Plus we always have an educational playshop where members support the community by sharing skills on navigating relationships and intimacy. Pink is friendly and relaxed with no dress code and no pressure. We are a melting pot of pansexual, queer, poly, kink, vanilla, straight, lifestyle, and fetish. There's something for everyone and no pressure to participate. Pink is the place where you can really be yourself. A lot.

is Mission Control's kinkiest party. It's a place to unleash your dominant side, go deep into submission, explore restraints, role-play, and experiment with kinky toys. Whether you're a BDSM-curious newbie or a veteran with a toy bag who knows how to play, Threshold is a great place for exploration and kinky play. Our community gathers every other month at Mission Control, where Allies (paid members) play for free.

We start each event with a playshop where iconic fetish personalities come to share their knowledge with us. Each event brings a new focus which guests can explore in our Fun-geon. If the topic of the playshop doesn't tickle your fancy, don't worry, you can arrive after it ends and just enjoy the party. Threshold is the place where our community explores the deeply erotic world of BDSM and Dark Tantra. Pleasure and pain. Intense sensations. Power play. As with all Mission Control events, Threshold is built on a foundation of consent and responsible play.

is about exploratiion, expression, and enjoyment. Curiosity for something new or want to play with what’s familiar, you’re welcome here. Simply put, we like playing with you.

Style + Debauchery + Queer = Velvet!

A sexy, edgy, play party for queer women+transfolks*

Velvet is a sexy, kinky play party for queer women and the trans folks and genderqueers who love them. Complete with an incredible dance floor and DJ, gardens, and cozy lounge areas. Come enjoy high-fetish femmes handing out treats, pervy entertainment from some of the hottest queers around, dancing, cute queer girls and bois, and lots of decadent corners to get friendly. Sexy clothes are encouraged, fetish/leather gear always welcome. 

*please no cis men.

An event exclusively for POC of all ethnicities and combinations thereof. This event is open for all experience levels, and the level of your involvement is entirely up to you.  SOUL’s hosts are a coalition of POC event hosts, producers, and members. Our mission is to bring POC together in a space where we create the rules and can exist as our authentic selves.

Mission Control's celebration of exhibitionism.  We believe that at their best there is synergy between exhibitionism and voyeurism.  Voyeurs make the party more fun for exhibitionists; exhibitionists make the party more fun for voyeurs.  

 Our Main Show creates a space for exhibitionists to perform scenes that are sexy, interactive, and exciting in front of a crowd.  Shows must be sexy in some way, but exhibitionists are encouraged to use their imagination.   Other exhibitionist spaces allow you to put on unscheduled scenes.  There are also spaces for couples and moresomes who want to play without being the center of attention.

We’re open to people of all orientations and genders.  All attendees are requested to put in some effort to express their sexiness.  Please dress up, or strip down…

is when the community comes together to make upgrades to the space. It takes all of us to keep Mission Control thriving and this is an opportunity to give back to the community that gives so much.

is a gathering for volunteers only. We celebrate our magical special community with the people who make it magical.

is a workshop series presented by Alison Ash. Empower yourself through radical self-exploration and courageous self-expression. Dr. Alison Ash is a sex and intimacy coach and sexual empowerment educator who has been exploring the intricacies of sex and gender for more than a decade.

As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, Aly has a comprehensive understanding of the complex societal challenges that often lead to unsatisfying and disempowering sexual experiences.  A champion for others overcoming shame and deepening pleasure, Aly helps her clients radically explore and courageously express themselves. Aly designs workshops and offers individuals and couples coaching to give others the tools to discover their desires and confidently pursue them. 

is a global sex culture community with events happening all over the world. Founded in San Francisco, it’s origins are intertwined with Mission Control. They are symbiotic organizations, and yet distinctly different. To learn the full story read Polly’s book! kinkysalon.com

is for people of all genders with a priority on creating a safer space for trans, genderqueer, gender-variant, queer, open minded, and unidentified folks to get their groove on. Gender Blender is committed to upholding consent culture and creating designated safe spaces for anyone who is often othered and for communities that are often marginalized or exoticized.

is an event dedicated to non monogamous community. It’s specifically created for poly-identified, poly-curious, and poly-friendly folks.